Christmas party and a wedding

Friday evening as I was returning home, I saw fireworks.  I think the local pub was celebrating winter solstice.  I would celebrate it as well.  The lack of sunshine has been hard.  But I have been able to keep busy.

One afternoon we had our office Christmas party.  We went to the home of  a supporter, ate goodies, drank mulled, pulled crackers and reveled in the excellent company.  I even gave a fairly good rendition of Rudolf, which was caught on film.  
We had a secret Santa gift exchange.  I ended up with a warm woolen scarf.  Anja added hilarity to the activity.

Friday evening I helped prepare for a wedding. I had not been able to do any Christmas baking, so I helped make the desserts for a young couple from church.  He is the local Christian Union staff member here at Oxford and she teaches school.  We made fruit salad, apple crisp and banoffie.  It was great fun.

The wedding was not Church of England, but the Brits do take the marriage ceremony more seriously that we do in the states.  Before the bride enters the church the registrar, the government official who is required to witness the wedding, asked her questions to make sure she is the person listed on the license and that she is marrying of her own free will. (Britain has seen several forced marriages within the communities of their former colonies.)  Then the minister must ask if anyone knows of any reason why the couple not be married. In addition the couple both have to declare that they are not a ware of any reason why they cannot be married. (I have heard of a marriage called off by the registrar when the bride playfully said that she might be able to think of some reason.) Then the registrar and church role are signed during the ceremony.  This couple entertained the congregation with a ribbon dance during this time.

The reception commenced immediately after the ceremony with hot mulled apple juice and munchies.  The groom is the young man standing

After a very good meal of roast pork, (I have a photo of the pig on the spit. Email me if you would like to see it.) the festivities continued with a barn dance.  The bride is in white.  I left shortly after the dancing started, having been with people for nearly six hours and anticipating an evening of carols the next night.

Sunday evening I went to the Carol Service at my church.  They do not necessarily sing the same carols here, and a couple of the tunes are different.  One that I find most theologically suspect is Once in Royal David's City. The first verse rightly proclaims the coming of Christ, but by the third and fourth verses children are admonished to be like him, meek and obedient.  I am not sure that he was necessarily meek and it does bother me that a Christmas carol is used to get children to mind their parents.  Then the final verse tells of the Christians all in white waiting in heaven.  Our future clothing style is not mentioned and the assumption is that the by that time the waiting will be over.  The service was enjoyable though.

A wet weekend and the Christmas pageant

I began the weekend buying groceries in the rain.  Te bus trip wasn't bad, but walking a from shop to shop was a rather drenching experience.  This is the first time I've really had to spend time in the British weather.

In the afternoon, I went into the city center and heard this band come around the corner.

When they realized I was taking a photo, several of the band members posed.

     

  

                

I spent a couple of hours sitting at the SAGE table at the Green Fair in the Oxford Town Hall.  I am not very good at engaging people in this type of setting, but I enjoyed the venue, wood paneling and impressive portraits around the walls.

That afternoon I went to the church Christmas pageant with Mary, Joseph and the baby Jesus.  A donkey was also in attendance.

When the angels and shepherds arrived, chaos reigned.

This angel is the daughter of one of my  work colleagues.

The weekend was completed with caroling through the neighborhood around the church.  I discovered the reason for the Victorian pictures of caroling have the singers at the base of a lamp post.  They need the light to read the words.

We also left leaflets telling the people about the church calendar for the Christmas season.  One woman said that she had gotten one earlier.  Her daughter exclaimed, "I got a Christmas card from Jesus."

Waddesdon Manor and other Christmas events

On Thursday this past week I attended the St. Peter's Players performance of Treasure Island, a Christmas pantomime. The tradition is for the young male lead to be played by a female and the older female character to be played by a male. The palm tree was almost a character of its own, being moved from one place to another to signify a different part of Treasure Island. 

The audience is asked to cheer, hiss and boo.  The local theatre was the perfect place to experience this tradition for the first time.  I knew several of the actors from various village events.

Such as the monthly music and story telling time at the local pub, which I attended the next evening.  I told them the story of the mysterious spiral staircase in New Mexico.

Saturday I went with a group from church to visit Waddesdon Manor, an extensive estate built in the mid 19th century by the Rothschild's for their weekend entertaining.  

Winter is not the best time to visit the grounds of this house.  they drain the fountains and wrap the statues against damage from the freeze and thaw cycle of the British winter.

We went to the stable area to look at the Christmas market and get a cup of coffee.  These buildings could have easily accommodated a good size community as well as the animals.  It was a about 5 minutes walk from the house.  I wondered how the need for a horse or buggy was communicated.

We then went on a short tour of the wine cellars.  The Rothschild's even now have extensive holdings of wine producing land throughout the world so this is an appropriate display of that part of the family fortune.

Important people like the queen have been here to taste the Rothschild wine. This a display of photos and testimonials. They even have a bottle that was originally ordered by Thomas Jefferson.  The war of 1812 interrupted delivery so one bottle of the order is now on display.  I also enjoyed chairs painted with cherubs.

The wines that are sold in the gift shop are stored in the cellar.  I was with an artist who appreciated the interesting visual effect of the rows of bottoms of wine bottles.

The round room was used for special dinners.  The circle in the middle of the table could be removed and replaced with a container for wine dregs. The sculpture on the table honors the coopers who make wine casks.

We then went on a tour of the house interior.  As is often the case with these historical houses, no photos were allowed.  I did see two very interesting things.  A painting by Giovanni Panini entitled The Ball.  The online photo does not do justice to this piece.  The many individuals depicted in the crowd each have distinguishable facial expressions.  I also enjoyed a more contemporary piece is Porca Miseria by Maurer.  Such a stark piece in the midst of an essentially Victorian setting was quite effective.

After the tour of the house, we enjoyed tea in the kitchen and servant's dining room.  The seasonal decorations were fully evident.

As we walked back to the car, the view of the manor lit for the night was beautiful.

Tuesday afternoon at the office, our team sponsored a soup lunch for the benefit of the Egyptian Bible Society. Our resident French person brought delicious onion soup.  We also had a very good tomato soup, cheese and fresh bread.  I enjoyed helping set up the meeting room to make the meal a festive occasion.

Advent begins

the Christmas season has arrived.  This week I traveled to Gloucester to visit the Westonbirt Forest with the local Botanical Club. The strategic placement of colored lights make an ordinary arboretum into an enchanted forest.

Santa's reindeer were grazing throughout the forest.  Can you see Dancer?

After walking through the lighted forest we returned to the concession area for refreshments.  I had a turkey sandwich  made from a turkey raised on Prince Charles's farm.  Well, the advert said the turkey was locally grown and Highgrove is just next door. I also has some roasted chestnuts and elderflower presse.

Sunday evening I attended an advent service at the local parish church.  Walking down the lane on the way to the church I suddenly heard the church bells.


The service 

was lit entirely by candlelight.  A choir had come from London and ended the service with a beautiful arrangement of the American spiritual Rise up Shepherd.  A wonderful experience.

Beware the following photos might offend vegetarians.

I also went to the Covered Market to see what they were doing for Christmas.  The butchers had their wares out for all to see.  Britons enjoy a number of different meats.  How many can you see in these photos?